have tried most of the day to get me and another friend connected in a game...
just stops at the "trying to connect screen"
i have one single time been able to join a game...
when i try and host and set auto port then it is only the first time it uses port 6073... after that it uses port 0, then i have to close the game and start it up again to host a game with 6073.
but even tho neither me or my friend gets any longer than the "trying to connect" screen. 
great game cant wait till it is all done 