I hate to beat a dead horse, but is GPG/Stardoc aware that people are having such a hard time? From what I read, Betas 2A and 2B were to make sure the multiplayer and connectivity worked...but it seems to me that it *doesn't* reliably work. And Beta 3 is supposed to start Thursday???
I read originally that with this new system, and using things like tunneling and such, the hope was that all users could both join and host, regardless of firewalls and other things that would slow them down.
Would we see better luck if we tried to host on specific ports and setup forwarding on those ports? What about the Auto-Port? That seems to always use 6073...
Also it seems that, and I could be wrong, but when a users who fails to join can't get in...effectively it screws the game and now nobody can join.