There are ways to play with your friends, first choose the same side (good v evil) and be sitting at the screen with your hero choice ready to hit "Fight" now either be sitting in the same room/on lan/on a voice program that you can use while looking at this screen. Now both click Fight at the same time. If one of you get the "connecting dialog" in the bototm right CLICK IT FAST - if your buddy is not there click cancel and start over if they are obviously don't do anything)
Also a good indication if you two are synced to be put into games together is if the banners that change while finding games is the same and changes at the same rate.
