I'm not really a "pro" player, but in my opinion, out of TB's 6 spells, fireball is the best, but the other two fire spells are the worst. So, when I play TB, I go with fireball and then all the rest of the ice stuff.
Fireball is, of course, tons of damage. The ice circle nukes creeps and debuffs demis. Ice nova is the best stun, and stuns are useful for a number of reasons. Ice Grasp honestly isn't my favorite spell, but it's versitile and maxing it lets you buff it and fireball, which I think is worth it. And, since I'd mostly be sitting in ice mode, I'd use leftover points on the ice aura.
Fire Nova is close range, which you don't want to sit around in as a squishy mage. Fire circle is not only close range, but all you have to do to avoid it is take two steps to the side at your convienence. Both decent against creeps, but I like ice circle against them so you can kill them without risking your thin hide. Obviously, putting points into both auras is not worth it.