Yeah especially because of bad connections etc. at least a 1 -2 minute grace period would be great.
It just sucks if your teammate doesn't connects and you stay there with an feeder ai vs two players.
Especially in pantheon this sucks... It should be something like a torunament and your chances arfe dependent on connection luck? Not my impression of a competetive tournament.
But anything above 3 minutes is too long in my opinion.