As I don't seem to have much luck in another thread (http://forums.demigodthegame.com/352141), I'll post my own in techincal support. 
Since the first update of the 14th Demigod crashes my E-Tech ADSL Modem Router. Sometime during connecting to the lobby or while in the lobby, my router will just crash and take Demigod with it. I need to hard-reset it in order to have an internet connection again. Now, a router shoulnd't just crash, whatever the program is doing, but I suspect Stardock is doing something rather dodgy to make this happen. In the beforementioned thread, somebody suggested Demigod might be flooding my router because 'flow control' was disabled.
Is there anything I can do to start playing again, or is this game just not going to work for me anymore? 
Edit: For reference, I have my ports forwarded, and I don't recall any other games having this problem. Supreme Commander seems to work fine.