There's nothing for you to apologize for. All you did is wake me up to the reality of the Demigod community - it's toxic.
No matter what we do for the game post release, it'll never be enough. I think that's clear. No matter what we do or what we get GPG to do the best we'll ever get from the Demigod community is "well it should have had <insert feature> to begin with" with the typical response being "Well that's nice but what about <insert thing they want next here>?"
It's a toxic community here. And that's just the forums. Then, you get into the game and you get people who grief other users in games, swear at them, create pre-mades without identifying what they are.
And in my head, I can think of endless efforts to counter toxic behavior by the community with new features in the game but for what?
The best thing I think is to let Demigod evolve in whatever way it's going to evolve without my trying to interfere with it. My time is much better spent on Elemental where if someone has a request that I agree with I can get it into the game directly (literally either code it myself or assign one of my developers).
On Demigod, I'll always be merely the messenger of news (good and bad) and frankly, the Demigod community is too toxic for me to want to spend my free time being apart of. Maybe that's because of the early networking issues the game had or because of the genre of the game or the demographic of the players. I don't know. I just know I don't want to be apart of it anymore.
That doesn't mean I won't ever be on anymore. But as long as the forums are brimming with bile (justified or unjustufied) I won't be apart of it.
But there is nothing you said in your comments that was inappropriate or wrong. It just made me realize that my presence doesn't really make a different in the bigger scheme of things in the community.