lol.. i said i was no expert and its not a funny thread in all fairness..
it has actually solved a few peoples problems by using their motherboard ethernet port and not the network card. I tried to explain but since i am no expert its hard
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as i tried to say in my original post... my one friends network card was supposed to enhance peer to peer performance so he could easily connect to any player but all other traffic was sent away to prevent lag.. in doing so he couldnt enter games even tho he connected to every player.
I only tried to help other people that could be in the same position.