i will try uninstalling norton and deactivating the firewall, however i did not have these problems until recently. i played over 600 games (did have some crashing and dc issues then too) but only now has the issue become rampant. it is worth a shot though so thanks for the reply.
comcast isp, scientific atlanta dpc2100r2 series cable modem, linksys wireless g 2.4ghz router (i plug an ethernet cable into the the router / comp before playing and disconect the wireless via the connections screen on the pc)
i have tried bypassing the router (running an ethernet cable directly from cable modem to pc), made sure video and sound drivers were up to date (nvidia geforce 8500 gt / realtek high def audio ... ViXS puretv-u sound device is also listed as a sound device but im not sure what that is), updated directx, ran a registry cleaner, reinstalled demigod several times, all seem unsuccessful.
i will try lowering firewall, resetting cable modem / router to see if that helps