Well, that sucks. Two attempts, and no go. First time, it blackscreened on load.
Second time, it loaded fine... then a few minutes into the game, it acted as if it were paused. All I could see were other people trying to pause and unpause the game as if that would fix it... and it went on like that for a minute or two, so I quit figuring everyone's game was stuck too.
You were fine, the game acted as though it were paused because someone was lagging / crashed. People hit pause / unpause (I THINK???) because it resets the disconnect counter and gives the lagger a chance to reconnect. When you see this happening, just wait it out, the game continued after a couple minutes and the player disconnected.