I posted this thread in irc, and the response from my friendette pretty much sums it up
[19:29] <asdf1> http://forums.demigodthegame.com/367629
[19:29] <asdf2> lol
[19:30] <asdf2> most dudes don't realize how many ninja girls there are. stay quiet just to avoid such people D:
Females play games, it's just that the harder you look for them the less likely they are to show up.