Guys-marry someone worthy..
and treat her like she's worthy.
If you got to screw around get a damn divorce first.
I'll never understand why people act so shocked and surprised when someone looses it because their spouse cheated on them. It's not like it was even a one time thing. He would have probably f***ed a snake if he could have held it still long enough.
It's not like she dropped some Quaaludes, grabbed a bottle of Jack, and drove the bulldozer through town taking out buildings and citizens on the way to the house.
Her action was measured and controlled. No one gets needlessly hurt, injured, shot, etc. She 'employed' workers to do it, paid to have the debris removed, probably had to pay to have it dumped, and will pay someone to make the empty lot look pretty again. If she or someone rebuilds, it will put even more folks to work. SO she is actually helping the economy. 