Your best bet, is to just to keep waiting until the proxy servers get started up. Go make some friends in Aussieland you can play with as well. Also, make a thread asking if Aussie Demigod players would like to plan some Aussie-only games together.
And, uh, btw... calling Americans ignorant is NOT going to help your situation any better. All races and nations of people can be ignorant, not just Americans. So by your logic, me being American, is it possible for me to assume that Australians are as dumb and shortsighted as you are? Think outside the box and try fixing things rather complaining about a few instances. Do as I said above and maybe you will get a better time out of Demigod.
Point is, it isn't just Australians having this problem, even Americans are getting this problem too. So don't be calling out Americans when YOUR problem is easily fixable.