Hey buddy, looks like you have the right attitude as far as letting people give you advice/critisism... crap, I can't spell criticism oh that time I got it right! Pretty good for never having gone to colledge... crap! College? Ah, there we go.
Anyway, try playing with Oak, UB, or Erebus... when you make the jump from beginner games, that will serve you well.
I don't personally care at all about winning, but I don't want a beginner on my team who's going to play with one of the weaker demigods... thats just not fun for anyone, even the guys on the other team who are killing my noob teamate over and over and over and over and over.
You're welcome in any team of mine... as long as you play UB and stack the hell out of HP items and max out ooze and spit we'll still lose, but we'll fight the good fight!
Oh, and sorry bout any attitude you've encountered... trust me, theres lots of pricks who've given us a bad experience helping out beginners... just get over any nonsense people have said, host noob games, get better, play the three best demigods, and I'll see you in the experienced games soon.