most people won't play with
That "most people that won't play with me" group consists of yourself (a pinnacle of noobishness to the point of not understanding flag mechanics), hero/visca (a cheater using custom kick religiously and slowing down games deliberately) and the One team guys (not a big loss, they are only worth something vs noobs anyway).
I won't say I'm the easiest person to get along with, but most of my, erm, in-game relationships are mixed (love/hate). People may not like me (temporarily), but they play with me willingly.
Also, I have noticed a curious tendency: when my team is only slightly weaker, you leave with "I don't play with OMG", but when yours is light years stronger, you seem to forget about those issues you have with me. Why is that, eh?