Change to Proxy Servers? Thank you, Stardock!
According to this post http://forums.demigodthegame.com/347703/page/1/#2151462 by Frogboy, they're changing to proxy servers for online connection next week instead of this P2P system. Many praises in hopes for a smooth transition that'll make this game a 10/10 (connection issues are the only thing holding it back...oh, that and the damned -Favor issue/bug)
I feel pretty confident that we'll have this pretty much nailed this upcoming week.
What we're going to do is rather than you guys having to connect to each other, we're going to set up proxy servers so that you connect to those servers and pass thorugh there.
Because of Impulse, we already have servers around the world so we can piggyback on those servers and it should introduce relatively little lag.